The majority of men, both HIV-negative (68%) and HIV-positive (90%) said they had ever had a potential sex partner disclose that they were HIV-positive with an undetectable viral load on a mobile app.Out of these men, 8.7% of HIV-negative men and 60% of HIV-positive men reported ever having condomless anal sex with one of those partners with an undetectable viral load.
Out of all participants who reported a potential sex partner disclosing Pr EP use, 16% of HIV-negative men and 45% of HIV-positive men said they had condomless anal sex with a partner they knew was on Pr EP.
My wife still tells me she finds me physically attractive and I exercise regularly to keep fit and stay attractive to her so I know that my appearance isn't the issue.
We've had many discussions about this subject and my wife knows how frustrated I have become but she tells me she just no longer has the interest in sex that she once had.
Going to hotels with strange men you think you know is how you end up becoming the real-life inspiration for an episode of Get it, girl! There is nothing wrong with making the rendezvous hot and heavy.
You do not have to wait around like a nun if the passion and fire are there. If you really like him and he really likes you, what's stopping you? Don't deprive yourself of an orgasm because of some outdated idea of what makes a woman a "lady." Living by impossible standards is not good for anyone. In fact, get yourself a new sex toy for the occasion. Forget being coy; you two are super-into each other and should have an absolutely fabulous time together.